The Human Condition

I'm a fuckin failure.  He said it to himself over and over.  Beating himself with his percieved faults and missed steps.  Hoping and clinging to a belief that maybe one day the universe would hear his cries and unload a flood of prosperity and success.  Wishing, hoping, dreaming that even one aspect of life, he'd …

Emotion vs Logic: the Struggle for Sanity.

The other day I watched the "Defiant Ones"  on Net Flix .  It's a docuseries about Dr. Dre and Jimmy Iovine. These guys are two of the most influential music producers/engineers/ moguls of the 21st century.  They became business partners and created Beats head phones, then sold it to Apple.  It was a pretty big …

Make YOUR LIFE better for YOU!

"Yeah MO FO! That's what I've been trying to do".  Is what you're probably thinking to yourself. You may even have a side of, "Who's this F'n guy?" With that. I get it.  You've been trying and seemingly seen no change.  But if you really are putting in the effort, can you honestly say, that …

Coping with Life means Experiencing, Experience.

As I get older, life seems to get more complicated, but at the same time easier to deal with. I remember having a conversation with someone I used to admire.  Things were much harder then, than they are know and I was trying to figure out alot of what life was throwing at me.  Everything …

Walked out of my job and it feels so good.

So I walked out of my day job near the end of the summer in 2020.  No I didn't have a plan or money in the bank to tide me over, or even an open opportunity to transition in to. At 39 yrs old I felt like I was being pushed out.  Like everything that …

Monday Motovation

I am who I am, I do what I do. Your beatings don't faze me. Say what you say, but you know You don't hate me. Point me to grace and I'll scratch and claw. Beat down the walls and break down the barriers, that you say carried us here. The light, the fear. Sweat …

I need Motivation

I’ve joined ineedmotivation.com as an affiliate.  So heads up this is an affiliate post.  There will be helpful links to self improvement products and courses.  When you purchase a product or course from ineedmotivation.com I will get a commission that will help support the blog at no extra cost to you! Having said that, I …

WHAT does it TAKE to be a MAN?

Is a man defined by his low hanging fruit… if you know what I mean? ‘Cause if that’s the case.  I’m out!  I can’t be pigeon holed and held accountable for a misguided few who skew the curve on what a real man is. In my opinion a real man lives his principals, understands value …

Learn how to learn: Finding the link

All this Covid talk sparked a discussion with my kids the other day.  Their excitement about not having school has dwindled.  Boredom has started to set in and they want out.   Who would have thought right? At least that seems to be my daughters' take on things right now.  The two of them are …

LEVEL UP in LIfe. It’s a GAME. LEARN how to PLAY it.

Have you ever noticed, the more you focus on changing one aspect of your life.  The more obsessed with results you become.  Evoking a myriad of emotions. Most notably frustration.Have you also noticed, that within your frustration, lies the antidote. The roller coasters off switch, if you will.I watched a video on Facebook a few weeks back. It seemed like …