Have some Ambition Damn it!

I had a debate with a friend of a friend the other day.  We were talking about how hard it is now to find a job.  How the wages don't reflect living standards and the opportunity to get ahead is slowly dwindling. It's tight for sure and for those out of work, due to the … Continue reading Have some Ambition Damn it!

Make YOUR LIFE better for YOU!

"Yeah MO FO! That's what I've been trying to do".  Is what you're probably thinking to yourself. You may even have a side of, "Who's this F'n guy?" With that. I get it.  You've been trying and seemingly seen no change.  But if you really are putting in the effort, can you honestly say, that … Continue reading Make YOUR LIFE better for YOU!

Coping with Life means Experiencing, Experience.

As I get older, life seems to get more complicated, but at the same time easier to deal with. I remember having a conversation with someone I used to admire.  Things were much harder then, than they are know and I was trying to figure out alot of what life was throwing at me.  Everything … Continue reading Coping with Life means Experiencing, Experience.

It’s a New Year and a New Out Look.

I've been gone for a while, some personal issues popped up and basically put my life on hold. It effected almost every aspect of it. It also taught me to believe in myself, it instilled confidence in my capabilities and an overall understunding that I can and do have a major effect on the people … Continue reading It’s a New Year and a New Out Look.

Nature and Family, the only way to Relax.

I spent last week at a cottage with my family, my sister her kids, my 3 little ones, my parents and aunt and uncle, oh and daisey my parents dog. We took the scenic route because, well whats more fun than driving a dodge challeneger through the country side.  We like our road trips. One … Continue reading Nature and Family, the only way to Relax.

I need Motivation

I’ve joined ineedmotivation.com as an affiliate.  So heads up this is an affiliate post.  There will be helpful links to self improvement products and courses.  When you purchase a product or course from ineedmotivation.com I will get a commission that will help support the blog at no extra cost to you! Having said that, I … Continue reading I need Motivation

Proper MANAGEMENT of FEAR, ANXIETY and ANGER, can BOOST productivity, FOCUS and SELF DISCIPLINE.

Whatever struggle you feel, channel that, focus it into competition of self.  For example mine is anger, because I don't have sports to let out the aggression.  I've had to find other ways to channel it.The other day I was playing darts in my garage, I wasn't doing well and I started to get frustrated. … Continue reading Proper MANAGEMENT of FEAR, ANXIETY and ANGER, can BOOST productivity, FOCUS and SELF DISCIPLINE.

SOCIAL ANXIETY, triggering FEAR, crippling RELATIONSHIPS and it may all be IN YOUR HEAD.

There was a time when I would walk into a room and be so concerned about how people perceived me that, I would shut down, go silent and sit off to the side.Never really interacting but watching.  Looking for a kink in the social armor of those around me.How could they all so freely move and speak without … Continue reading SOCIAL ANXIETY, triggering FEAR, crippling RELATIONSHIPS and it may all be IN YOUR HEAD.

RESPECT: Is it EARNED or GIVEN?

Should respect be a given or earned? There are social norms that we all follow dictating on an average interaction how we should operate with a basic level of respect.I feel like 90% of respect is earned and 10% the basic level, a universal respect if you will, is given.Meaning I treat you with respect, … Continue reading RESPECT: Is it EARNED or GIVEN?

Learn how to learn: Finding the link

All this Covid talk sparked a discussion with my kids the other day.  Their excitement about not having school has dwindled.  Boredom has started to set in and they want out.   Who would have thought right? At least that seems to be my daughters' take on things right now.  The two of them are … Continue reading Learn how to learn: Finding the link